[kimmie1212]

I have a very confusing situation going on in my life right now and really need some insight on what to do. Right now, I,m in a relationship of three years. It just seems like we are not moving ahead and we are not falling back. It justs stays the same. He is working on his dream home to make his life complete where he can invite me and my daughter to live the american dream. We talked about marriage in the beginning, but that was it. When he talks to people he always says he doesn't want to get married anytime soon. What am I supposed to be a girlfriend for the rest of our lives? He spends all his time on this house and our relationship sets to the side. He is good to me but he doesn't give me the attention and affection I need. I love sex and here in the last few months it has really died down in our relationship. It went from 2 or 3 times a week to once or twice a month. He says it because he is so tired. He works 10 hrs at work and till 9 or 10 when he gets home on the house. Am I being selfish there? I'm right there helping him just so I can spend time with him.

I have this guy that I have been talking to about my problems and vice versa. I know this is wrong from the get go. He is married and has 2 kids. We get along so great!!!!! It's almost scary. The problem is, we have fell in love with each other!!!!! I feel so right with him and he feels the same. We want to be togther but, scared to take the step. I never felt this way about a person in my life. We both know this could be a wonderful and loving relationship , but we are scared to take the step. I can tell this guy my inner most feelings and sexual fantasies. I have never done that with a guy!!!!!! We have been together a few times and I can't explain the feeling that I had going through my body when he touched me. It was amazing!!!!!

I know that this guy cares more for me than my current boyfriend and that is sad. So, why are we not taking that step to be together? Please, someone explain it to me?

kimmie1212