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Here is the situation. i have been married for 1 1/2 yrs, no kids. my wife and i have always had problems with sex and i feel like we really dont fit together. we both felt pressure to get married, we are both 34yrs old. our sex life is really bad now, maybe 2x's a month and i feel unsatisfied. a few months ago i cheated, not full on sex, oral. i felt terrible about it then this happened. About 2 weeks ago i recvd a postcard in the mail from my ex girlfriend that i dated 7yrs ago. we have stayed in contact the past 7yrs, talked maybe every 6 months. i consider her to be my soulmate, we dated for 2yrs, i was totally in love with her and wanted to marry her and still feel that way. she ended up getting married to a older man with lots of cash, she was dating him before i met her. well now she is getting a divorce from him after being married for 3yrs. her marriage was terrible and she said she really was never in love with him. I told her my problems and we have been talking everyday. i have seen her a few times and we had a great time, just like when we were together 7yrs ago. should i trust her? i want a separation from my wife and i want to be with my ex, is that a totally wrong thing to do? she says she now knows what she wants and its me, she also regrets not getting married to me when we dated. she said it was the worst mistake of her life.