[Just A Girl2]

Wow, based on the all around patheticness (yeah I know, not a word) of this situation, I'd just assumed that you and "your guy" were very young....late teens. To find out that you're 26 and he's damn near 30, that puts an entirely different spin on things.

Why on earth would you want to give the time of day to a guy who couldn't tell his ex about you? (I use the term "ex" loosely)

Why would you want to be with a guy who had you hide in the flippin closet while his ex stops by? Don't you have any self worth? Regardless of the fact that you're a "highly successful, highly paid professional" (same thing a prostitute could say to describe herself) or whatever it is you are, that has no bearing on one's self esteem or self worth.

Why on earth would you want to be with a guy who was old enough to accept the responsibilities of getting his long-time girlfriend PREGNANT, but cried "I'm not ready to be a Dad".....we're not talking about some 16 yr old punk here, we're talking about a grown man who was having some fun on the side with you, and he asked his girlfriend to get RID OF his own unborn child, because he didn't want it to mess things up with you. How sick is that? THis is the kind of man you want to give your time and heart to? No birth control is 100%..what if you get pregnant, do you think he's going to somehow stick around for you and your child? If so, think again. He's shown his true colors here in a zillion different ways. He's either a really spineless f*ckwit, or he's a master player who's got your head so screwed up that you can't even see the forest for the trees.

How could any woman want a man who would dump the woman he got pregnant? That is dispicable and disgusting. It's not much of a man at all. Especially at his age. And to think for 2 or more months there, he was seeing YOU...behind HER back, not telling her about YOU.....making you hide in the friggin broom closet, for pete's sake. Just how pregnant was she? In most states and in Canada, they won't do an abortion if the fetus is past 3 months gestation......so if he'd made it clear initially that that's what he wanted her to do about the situation, and she felt no choice but to agree (must be horrible for a woman to be pregnant by someone she was in a long term relationship, who she deeply loved, only to find he doesn't want her or the unborn child)...then that MUST MEAN that she wasn't that far along in her pregnancy.

SO..do the math. Seems pretty obvious that he was still sleeping with her during the early stages of him seeing you.

So you want to be with a guy who's screwing around on you/deceiving his ex, gets a woman pregnant while with you, wants her to "get rid of it" like it's a pair of dirty old shoes......??

Lady, you need some professional help.