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I can elaborate more but every time I type my story, I am pretty ashamed of it, and delete it again. In short I guess I want to know :

Has anyone ever had a long term "love" affair, but chose to stay in their marriage only to become very jealous and hurt when their lover moved on?

I ask because I want to break this circle and focus back onto my wife instead of looking back at this situation wishing I had taken my chances.

Is it possible to put your partner back at number #1?

These questions are of course plagued with "it depends" kind of aspects, but any experiences would be appreciated.

Thanks