LoveShack.org Community Forums

Reload this Page LoveShack.org Community Forums > Breaking Up, Reconciliation & Coping > Breaks and Breaking Up

giving a relationship a break


Breaks and Breaking Up It happens to most everyone at some point in life! Share your experiences!

Prev Previous Post   Next Post Next
Old 5th April 2003, 4:02 PM   #1
eddie
New Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Eastern Pennsylvania
Posts: 4
Unhappy giving a relationship a break

Earlier this week, my girlfriend of two years suddenly tells me she requires a break form the relationship. She has done this before to me, due to stress with work, school, homework and no time for herself.
Last time it was for three weeks, which turned into three months. This time she asked for three weeks again. Maybe it's due to PMS, maybe the stress of tax time, for she works in an accounting office, also attends school two nights a week with homework and all that.
We do not live together. She has her own apartment and lives with her cat. I have my own house and live with my two daughters, a dog and two cats.
The last two years have led us to love each other very deeply, or so I thought. Upon reading posts to another discussion board, I learn that her attitude is that she doesn't know if she even wants the relationship to continue.
I'm hanging in the wings here waiting and wondering of the outcome, agonizing to a point whether she loves me or not.
The three weeks has just begun, however, do I really need to be left hanging like this, without a clue as why it is even happening?
eddie is offline   Reply With Quote
 

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

 
Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Giving a long-term relationship a 2nd chance Evanescence Second Chances 6 15th March 2005 3:02 AM
Taking a break from giving advice, maybe I should get some? SoleMate Separation and Divorce 14 10th January 2005 9:53 PM
BF Giving Little/No Physical Contact - Should We Break Up? Doreetoz03 Dating 3 18th August 2004 3:29 PM
How to break off other relationship??? Need help, ugently!!! shirley The Other Man / Woman 9 10th July 2004 9:06 PM
what us ab on again off again relationship without a break up? viciouscancer Dating 3 6th March 2004 9:27 AM

 

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 10:08 AM.

Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.


Copyright © 1997-2009 LoveShack.org. All Rights Reserved.