[lilfrustrated]

What can we do to fix things.

We are very much in love, but can't seem to get the communication down right as to who wants to make love and when. Both of us seem to have a difficult time coming right out and saying what we want.

I have been brought up Catholic, so it is has been drilled into me that women do not want or ask for sex. He has been brought up to respect women, so he does not touch or ask for sex out of respect. We hint, flirt, flash and still one or the other doesn't catch on. Then the feelings are hurt, which leads to anger and then arguments erupt and then there is definately no room for sex.

It is getting to the point that sex is almost non-existant or too quick to enjoy the full act of love making.

It is getting to the point where it is affecting every aspect of our lives, including our attitudes towards each other.

We need help NOW!!!