[Irish1]

My BF broke up with me Friday night. Together almost 3 years, I'm 46 and he's 29. Our problem was he never introduced me to his family or college friends, I felt he was embarrased of my/my age. We shared a large circle of other friends, of all ages. Fast forward: He emailed me this morning; on one hand saying it was the best years of his life, I'm great, compassionate, wonderful, etc. On othe other hand he also said he'll "probably" realize down the road he made a terrible mistake, he wants me for his good friend, wishes we could till hang out, loves me but not sure in "what capacity". I just don't know if I should respond or not. I think we both feel terrible I and I want to comfort him, but then think "whoa girl he's the one who left you". I don't want to play games either but my first priority is protecting my heart I think. Should I drop him a quick note i.e. thanks for your concern, I'll let you know when/if I can hang out with you again? He said he didn't expect me to respond and hopes his mssg. doesn't make things worse for me.