My story is posted on here -
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t77767/ so I won't go into the whole sordid thing. To bring you up to speed, I haven't talked to my ex (or her best friend) in over 3 weeks. Her friend and I were trying to be friends but I caught myself trying to pump her for information about my ex. I didn't feel it was fair to her so I stepped back - from both of them. Well, yesterday the friend called, and I don't know how to respond. I know she only wants to be friends with me so there's no alterior motive. I just don't know what to say...just in case she goes back and tells my ex that she talked to me.