dating, but he's married

Blondie

I don't want anyone to judge me, first of all. I am new to this kind of experience, and have never liked being cheated on. But I met this man, and we both knew instantly, that there was something there. He has been unhappily married for 17 years, and has never cheated before. I have always been too moralistic to be that way. We have now been seeing each other for 3 months. We have only had sex once in that time, so I know it's not just sex on his part. We mainly meet and have lunch, and talk, and talk on the net every night. I am crazy about this guy, and am so happy when I'm with him. But he won't leave his wife, because of his kids. Should I just wait around, or should I just get out now, even though it will hurt like hell? I NEED advice bad!! Like I said, I'm new to this, and I have always been the good girl type - but I know that I'm starting to fall hard. Please help!!!!!!!!