Do you think something "more" went on than he told me?

Lilly

He's misleading her, he's using her... for whatever reason, he's messing with her head (and with yours). For that he's a schmuck... an insecure, immoral toad, who seriously lacks principals. Leave the girl alone, you have a girlfriend.

Leave the girl alone *if* you have no interest in her other than to "he like to keep the contact with her because it enabled him to practice his written Spanish" and "just wants to keep the contact because maybe her family can help him because he wants to retire there and set up investments"... which one is it???. He's clearly told you he's using her. Does she know that's the only reason he's keeping contact... or does she think because he mails her, rings her, tells her he loves her that she's got a chance?. He's lying all over the place, he's making this up as he goes along me thinks.

Seems to me he's only telling you about her, what's going on, because he did in fact do something with her whilst over there. People who cheat often verbally introduce their new lover into conversations with their current partner as a new friend, tell their partner all about them so that their current partner won't get suspicious thinking 'they're telling me about them, can't be anything going on' to throw them off the scent. Bet that's what you thought right?. It's an old, old ploy.

The rest is a nice, believable picture he's made up to tie in with her reactions, her words, the stuff you can see. This guy's ego was far too stroked by this young girl for him to resist... he's admitted that.

Whatever way you look at it (even if he didn't do anything -which you'll never know for sure) he's a dog for playing games like this (then passing them off as a way to practice Spanish etc)... yeah, right!. The whole story sounds suspect... I'd kick him in the balls and throw him on the sidewalk with his other dog pals just for saying "If I find a nice Nicaraguan girl, maybe I'll marry her."

Go with your instincts... all the way, get logic (his) out of there and go with your gut. They say if you give someone enough rope, they'll eventually hang themselves... sit back, watch and listen to his story without saying too much. The holes in his story will get bigger.