I hope you didn't get the impression that I was angry with his children for acting like this. I really do blame him (and their Mom, if she allows this kind of behavior as well). I know that kids will do what they can get away with so I don't hold them responsible, I really don't. I've just never dated a man with boys before so had no idea how little boys can behave, and whether this is just par for the course or not. That's why I came here to ask =) Yes, kids must learn the basic tenets of respect from an early age, from their parents otherwise they'll go on to live lives that are filled with disrespect for others, other's property, their employers, the earth, etc. I thank you for a guy's perspective on this.
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I get mad as hell just reading about this. The fault isn't the kids. The fault is your guys and he is a scumbag, good for nothing, inconsiderate, turkeybird. I don't think this is somebody you should want in your life. It seems this is the way many people raise kids nowadays...to do whatever they want to do. And it seems like this is the way many people are these days, inconsiderate of the property of others. I would stop seeing this guy, stop seeing these kids, get your carpet and furniture cleaned, and look for a guy with no kids and who has had a vasectomy. Meanwhile, if you don't have the guts to tell this guy off, at least let him know you will no longer tolerate the unruly and destructive behavior of these kids at your house. If you don't respect yourself and your property, nobody else will. It's just the way life on planet earth has degenerated over the last 20 or 30 years. It's really sad.
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