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Old 21st December 2001, 3:17 PM   #1
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Hey I am recently single and just getting into the dating scene. I met a guy online and we emailed back and forth a several times, and then we went on two dates. After we had the second date I went to see his house. He was showing me the house and before turning on the light of one of the rooms he says "oh- i have to tell you I have a daughter, this is her room". I was not upset at the time, but later decided that he should have been more upfront with me and told me about his kid before we even met. He did have plenty of time to tell me.

I sent him an email explaining that he should have been upfront about it and that I did not wish to see him again. Was I too quick to judge him? He wrote me back and apologized and said that honesty is important to him and he is just very private about his daughter, and dosent tell people about her until he knows them.

Should I just forget about him or should I accept his apology? Isnt it a big deal to have a kid- something that a person you are dating should know right away? His kid is 14 if that makes a difference.

thanks!
 
 

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