Hello everyone. I'm new here and need help. I apologize if this gets long. My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for 7 years. To be quite blunt, it's getting to s*it or get off the pot. We live 100 miles from each other. He works as a cop and I will graduate from grad school in May.
I don't know what to do. He won't really talk about the subject other than saying "I want to marry you" and "i'm going to get you a ring" though I really think both are said just to satisfy me. I need to start looking for a job but I really don't know where to look because I don't know if we are going to be together or not. Also, I have had really bad female problems in the past that could keep me from having children if I don't start working on that pretty soon. We both want children and he knows all this.
I feel like he's stalling me until he can figure out what to do. How can someone you've dated this long not know if they want to marry you or not? Doesn't that mean the answer is no? Sometimes I wonder if he doesn't know if he wants me or not, but knows that he doesn't want anyone else to have me.
I'm confused, hurt, and frustrated. Someone please help. Thanks.
Mary
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