[Tamrick]

I feel like I have a semi long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We live an hours drive from each other - we see each other about four times per week, but basically live at each other homes then - I finish work at 18:30, arrive at his house around 19:30 and then leave at 06:00 in the morning to be back home in time for work. Weekends are spent one weekend at his house, one at mine (but that is cause I work every second weekend) He gets to my house anytime between 17:30 and 19:00 when he comes here and leaves between 05:45 and 08:00 the next morning depending on his work hours.

What kind of a relationship is this - it seems part long distance and part living together - he keeps clothes at my house in case he forgets something when he comes and it is rather like we both have two houses - I take my dogs to his house when I go there.

I desperately want to get married and part of it is about all the travelling. By the time I have worked from 08:00 til 18:30 I'm exhausted and to travel so far for only a few hours awake seems a bit much.