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Old 20th September 2005, 5:51 AM   #1
insanelyjelous
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Invaded his Privacy now what do I do!!

Hey Guys,

I really need some advice as I feel like I'm cracking up! Last nite I went through my fiances phone (I know I'm invading his privacy and the saying what you don't know cant hurt you comes to mind but I think I'm glutton for punishment). Anyway while I was going through his phone as I occasionally do I found at least 15 messages from 1 girl all in the same day, some of them seemed innocent enough and others not so innocent asking him what he was doing that nite. Now that might seem like nothing but I'm 99% sure he only just met this girl and for her to be sending all those messages he must be replying to them but when I looked in his sent box it was empty.
Anyway I just need some help on what to do! do I confront him and risk losing him because I invaded his privacy or do I keep quiet and pretend as if everything is ok when I'm not. We've just bought a house together but I'm afraid i've made the biggest mistake of my life. I know i've got trust issues that i'm trying hard to deal with and I really do love him.

Any advice would be much appreciated.
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