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angelcake

Hi,

I've been casualy seeing a new guy for the past two months. We're getting to know if we are the right people for one another, still going through the uncertainty stage. I enjoy the time we spend together but lately I've been feeling a little...frustrated. Here's the situation. I live at home and my house is pretty small. There's not much privacy for us to have some alone time. I'm not saying I need a place to have sex! But, I am saynig that we havn't had a change to get to know eachother on any sort of intimate level. He lives at home as well but his house is full of little kids running around us while we watch t.v. When we hang out at his place, we just sit beside eachother, he puts his arm around me, but that's about all we can do.

So, what should I do? He doesn't seem to know either, or maybe he doesn't feel ready for us to be "alone." Hell, I don't even know what kind of a kisser he is because when we go out for a drive, he only gives me a peck on the lips. I'm beggining to loose faith that we will never be able to have time to ourselves. A woman does have "needs" ya know?

I guess I'm a bit spoiled because my past relationships involved people with loads of privacy and we had plenty of space to talk and all that good stuff. Don't get me wrong, I still happen to be a virgin, I just enjoy spending intimate moments with my new guy. It does help me get to know him on another level. What do you suggest?