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Night out with Ex's Best Friend f/u to "Night out with the Ex"
Ok for the background on this post see "My night out with the Ex" which I have been posting under for the past few weeks.
I have been casually asking my ex out since our "non-date" a few weeks ago. I asked him to a movie and he was busy. He said his friend would like to go with me. Now both his friend and he have seen the movie already. This friend caused MAJOR problems in our relationship when were together. He (the friend) hated that I was with my ex because it took time away from their friendship and he was super jealous. He would constantly pick fights with me to make me look like the bad guy and this was a big problem for my relationship. When my ex wasn't around we got along great but as soon as my ex was there he wanted to wage war. In all honesty, I think he sabotaged the relationship becaus my ex was living with said friend and it just got to be too much and we broke up, not only because of the friend but I know it was part of it.
When I first talked to ex a few weeks ago he was already doing damage control and interrupting our conversation. On the plus side though, my ex no longer lives with this friend so he doesn't have as much control over the situation. This is why I question friends motives here. He doesn't like me. He doesn't like that me and the ex are talking. He has seen the movie already. Makes me wonder why he wants to go to the movies with me. Something is up. Whether he is going to feel me out for my ex or for himself. I am up for the challenge. I do need to learn to deal with him if I want to get back with the ex and to be honest when my ex isn't there we do have fun together. Should I wonder whats up though? This is weird. My ex really wants us to be friends and I think he pushed to set this up. What do you guys think?
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