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Old 6th October 2001, 10:46 PM   #1
Mike
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Unsure what to do.

I love my girlfriend very much and have a home with her.

In January, she began taking anti-anxiety medication and our sex life went from frequent and fun to never and none.

At this point, October, I still love her and she gives every appearance of loving me, but the sex is still gone.

My attempts to "get her going" just don't work. When I kiss her, she kisses me back with a peck on the lips, and though we cuddle in bed, it never goes anywhere beyond that.

I am 30 years old and she is 24, and we have been together about a year and a half. She has switched medication once to try and see if that was the problem but to no avail.

We do nothing sexual together at this point and I constantly am confused by this. I wonder if she hasn't just lost interest in me and will meet someone else who sparks her interest. She says no, but can't confirm that it is the drugs for sure.

She says she just doesn't want any sex.

Any good advice out there?

I am flustered.
 
 

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