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hi,

I am new to this list, this is my first post here. I would like to ask the men in this forum, especially married men-

I need advice. I'm not so happily married and thinking about leaving my husband. I am attracted to my husband's boss, and e-mailed him to let him know I am interested. I would not act on anything Unless I left my husband first.

This many replied to me like this:
I am very flattered, but a little uneasy about us meeting outside company functions. Given our current situations, I would like to get to know you better at the next company function,
sincerely,
X

He is also married. I am looking for non-judgemental advice. First of all,
Can you married men out there explain his response? Sould I be reading anything into this?

By the way,
I am an attractive woman. Last time boss man saw me I looked pretty good, but he has not seen me in more than 5 months and now I have lost some weight and had a makeover(no plastic surgery) and I look fantastic now, after months of excercise and changing my dress and makeup, etc.

Plese tell me how to handle this.