I need dating advice

Brianna

I am not too good at this dating stuff, I was married since High School and recently got divorced (thank god). Needless to say, athough I think I am attractive person, my confidence level is not so high.

I recently started dating someone, we live about an hour and a half away. We have gone out on 3 dates and talk to each other quite often. Right now I am not interested in a serious relationship, since I just got out of one. I am really just looking for someone for friendship and intimacy. I am wondering this.... the person i have been seeing well i am definitly attracted to him but i am feeling that he is more interested in himself more than anything. The conversations seem to be onesided and mainly about him. I noticed that he never asks me any questions or starts any legitmate conversations. Although we could talk for a while, it seems to be me always starting the conversastion.

Some friends of mine say "thats how men are" but it kind of aggrivates me. Do you think it is too soon to say anything about it to him, should I just end it, or should I give it some more time???????

thanks for your advice