[guitarplayer]

man,is it me or finding a good woman has become more like a job search.My 17 year old son does'nt seem to have a problem,man he's got tons of girlfriends but every girl I ask out either says "sorry I have a boyfriend" or there married(with no ring on there finger,I look first).Come on ladies,what am I doing wrong.I'm a nice guy,good looking family man but I must have "rejected 2 many times" tatooed on my forehead.I admit since my devorse I became a hermit and was feeling sooo sorry for myself it was pathetic.A (married)girl from work sugested to stop being sorry and start going out places(bars,clubs)but I've tried that dead end road and I dont want a bar girl,lol.I've done online dating but most girls I really like,they end up telling me "well that picture is 10 years old" and when I ask for a recent picture I understand why they use there old picture,lol.I know looks are not everything but "my god"I at least would like a decent looking girl,thats part of the chemistry.My personal skills and my ability to communicate are rusty when I'm at my best so this is'nt helping.I never ask any chick out in 14 years because I was married but now I'm single again I need to know what girls are looking for these days,lol.I see alot of guys with some hot babes out there(as I druel)and wonder what there doing right and what am I doing wrong.I talk to alot of girls through out my day but I cant seem to say the right things.I often wonder if I'm to conservative(to the bone)and being that way is'nt helping.I have this very high standard now because I dont want to go out with just any girl,been there done that.I want someone who enjoys the things I like for a change,is that posible???...Well any advise would be greatly needed,what am I doing wrong,I forgot how to ask out a girl.Help me get back on track,lol.......thanks all