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Good hygiene, good looks,but girls still don't seem to want to talk or be around me
Yes, I'm a freshmen in High School and I have a bit of a problem, I dress well and I have good hygiene, but girls still don't want to 'be friends' with me. I take a shower every morning, brush my teeth and put on AXE bodyspray to avoid sweating alot during Gym and Track Practice. Yet, however, girls don't seem to be attracted to me or want to talk to me for some reason, I'm starting to think it may just be something about me, rather then what's on the outside. I don't know, maybe they're convinced that, even though I smell and dress good, I'm antisocial or something. But yeah, help on this problem would be appreciated man, if you need more details I can post them.
IMPORTANT NOTE: The reasons I don't confront girls myself and expect them to come to me is really, because I'm not really that confident when it comes to getting girls. For instance, I have this one sophomore friend was trying to fix me up with this one girl and he told me to go up and say 'Hey, Wassup" to her, but in my mind I thought "What if she ignores me? What if I go up to her and she hears me, but doesn't say anything? and just looks back and turns, if alot of people are in the hallway I end up looking like an idiot or what if I just can't find the right words?" So yeah, I guess I don't have the greatest confidence.
Last edited by MikeViper; 14th April 2005 at 8:55 PM..
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