[Dragonflys]

I wanted to ask a dating question:

I am dating this girl, she is 23, I'm 29. We have gone on 7 dates in three weeks of knowing each other. We met in a bar. So far we have had a great time. She is very aloof about the whole thing. Thats fine.

So far we are only kissing, but interestingly I initiate all the intimacy and although she does not resist or complain at all, she only lets it go so far. She never talks about what she wants, and avoids talk about it, although I have only mentioned it once. I have never been in this situation before where it is like this. I find myself wondering whether she feels there is any chemistry between us, or whether I am just convenient.

She has a very busy working lifestyle and she does contact me for 2-3 dates a week so far so I'm not unhappy. I'm just wondering, if a women acts the way I'm describing, should I just continue to play it cool, or should I try and ignite more spark to stimulate more interest?.

I'm affectionate when with her (without overdoing it), but thats the way I am. I certainly don't contact her more than she does me.

Oliver