And porn is just a "boys will be boys thing"???

Mackenzie62

For all the debates on porn - here's another perspective. I think guys who jack off to porn ruin relationships with women. It's ruined my relationship with my partner that's for sure.

Here's the problem. I don't care what men do or look at in the privacy of their own homes (bathrooms/bedrooms) whatever. But I can tell you that it ruins a relationship when you're pecker is too soft to get hard because you spend too much time bopping your balony to porno.

I've just ended my relationship with my partner because he spends too much time doing this instead of pleasuring me. When we make love he can't last, he doesn't ejaculate much and he can't stay hard. Why? He spends too much time jacking off to porno mags. It's ruined our relationship - I get no sexual gratification from him and I'm dumping him to find someone else who can "last" longer and perform.

Why should I be with him when I can go back to using a vibrator or find a man who's not dependent on his porn and prefers the feel of a real woman and a real woman's body instead of a bottle of lubricant and a porno mag?

So to all of you who think porn is fine and it's just a thing guys do let me tell you it DOES interfere with relationships and it sucks to be with a man who can't stay hard and keep it up because he's spent too much time with his hand on his pecker, in his bathroom with a magazine between his legs.

Where are all the real men who want real sex with real women? I'm tired of duds in the bedroom - drop your porn and learn to have sex with a real women.

I'd give anything to be with a man who prefers real sex. Are there any guys out there left who don't resort to porn? I'm dying to be with a man who enjoys real sex but I'm starting to wonder if it's just a figment of my memory and in order to please myself I need to go back to vibrators and naked firemen fantasies.