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19 year(s) itch
Hi everyone. My problems are not so bad I suppose after some of the stuff I've been reading on this forum.
My Wambulance has arrived: I've been married for nearly 20 years and it has been rocky pretty much the entire time. Neither my Wife or myself has ever layed a hand on one another in anger. Come to think of it, we have never even had a heated argument. What has always bothered me is the fact that she has this anger for people and carries a grudge for life. There was a time that I actually had a relationship with most of my family (Dad, Mom, Brother, Sister,etc...etc). Like I said, there was a time. Also...the never-ending nagging. Hell...I wanted to leave her 6 months after we were married...but then she bacame pregnant. Doctor told me I was crazy for getting the vasectomy 17 years ago...turns out it is the ONLY decision I have never doubted. Sssooo glad I didn't assist in bringing another person in between our years of disfunction and indifference. It has always seemed very selfish to me that people in crisis even consider bringing a child into the world (which is why I got the big V 17 years ago). Well, now our Son is nearly 18 and I am really thinking about moving on being that our Son is getting ready to leave the house...probably for the same reasons as me. Do I scratch my 19 year(s) itch or what?
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