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Follow up
OK, for those who read my post, "how could this happen?", this is the follow up. Since we were all mutual friends and it turns out that he liked my other friend but went out on 2 dates with me...it was because he was clueless that they were dates! This guy apparently never really had a relationship so he's a bit out of the dating scene and the "rules" of what dating is. So I sort of gave him the benefit of the doubt of "using me" to get to my friend. But who knows....so anyway, after consideration of his situation, I knew that he would be freaking out that he had hurt me. So I emailed him a very honest letter about how I felt and that I want to stay friends with him. Of course I completely let go of my emotions in that email and he responded by saying that he was worried that I was pissed off at him and that he didn't want to lose friendship with me. ALso, he added, "so where do we go from here? let's see where this friendship leads us to..." and I thought...this couldn't mean that he's starting to notice me, is it?
So anyway, he called me up last night to hang out with him. I was surprised, but I didn't return his call (it was on the answering machine). So my question is...is this guy doing this out of guilt? or is he in denial thinking that life is perfect and that he could still be friends with me? or is he starting to notice me?
As I said before, he is like a high school kid who just started the dating scene...even though he's in his late 20s...
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