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Old 23rd September 2004, 7:35 PM   #1
SadAndLonely
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Is his casualness a bad sign?

Hi there,

I don't feel like linking all of my topics, but my ex broke up with me about two and a half weeks ago. We decided to be friends, and a week ago he said he still had some feelings for me, and still missed me sometimes, but wanted to be alone, and said that he's keeping an open mind, but nothing really more positive than that. On Saturday I was really upbeat and happy when I saw him, and he touched me a couple of times (just on the shoulder or hand or whatnot, but he normally doesn't touc hpeople), and I ended up asking him if he wanted to catch a movie with me, and he said sure, how about Friday (which is tomorrow, obviously). He called me Monday night just to chat for a bit, and on Tuesday for a little bit, but he hasn't called since then.

I called him tonight just to confirm the movie tomorrow, and he said we're still on, and to just come over after work. But he sounded so CASUAL about it, like he was just talking to any friend. I'm so scared that his feelings are completely gone for me, no matter what I do. Am I worrying too much right now? Is it possible he still has feelings even though he isn't showing it? Could he ever fall for me again? We broke up because we both had issues that we're working on, and because he wants his own time right now. I am POSITIVE there is no one else, but I'm so upset that he just sounds so casual.

Please help.
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