[retro80zkids]

My ex wife and i have 50/50 legal and physical custody. I had recently moved and went back to my old place to check the mail. In the mail were two letters from my health insurance saying that my two girls were approved for mental health treatment. (they are 5 and 7) so its saturday and i cant get ahold of anyone and im thinking that a mistake has been made. So monday i call the doctors name on the referral to see what its all about. She calls back after i am at work and just leaves a message saying to call her back. Later that evening my girls tell my fiance that they went to talk to someone "about how there lives were". My finace calls me at work and I came straight home i was so upset. 8 am tuesday i call the dr. she tells me my ex wife brought them there because she wanted to see how they were handling the divorce. News to me!!!! So my finacee and i make an appointment and go to see the doctor. She tells me that my ex wife says that at her house, the girls are crying alot and are acting "skittish" Also news to me. Well, i know i shouldnt have but I vented to the therapist about everything my ex wife keeps pulling. I told her i felt she was a pawn and being used by my ex wife to get back at me. She suggested that my ex wife and her new husband and me and my fiance come in to talk. I am so angry i dont know which way to turn. I need advice about how to handle this. My ex wife is basically trying to make it sound as if there is an abuse situation here. Why else would she say they were "skittish". Somebody please give me some advice!!!!!