[questioning]

I have a question for anyone that has gone through a divorce and started dating someone new. I have never been married and have fallen in love with a man going through his second divorce. The loss of his children has been a tremendous heartache for him - as well as the emotional devestation of his wife leaving him - as well as the financial devestation of dividing property/assets.

As we have continued to date over the past few months, he has stated over and over that he loves me and I sincerely believe this to be true. He also says that he wants to continue the relationship.....however, every once in awhile he will say things like he isn't sure he wants to get married again, doesn't want to commit to a long term relationship - he will then follow this with how much he loves me and wants to be with me and then follow that with a - maybe I should be alone for awhile.....problem is....I love him tremendously.

My question to you guys out there that have gone through a divorce.....how do you start to feel better? I know that deep down there is something between us worth waiting for - but I don't know how to help him.....

I just want him to be happy again.....and I want me to be happy....any advice?

Thank you!