Cheating, Flirting, and JealousyBeing unfaithful to your significant other or suspect them of the same? Can't stand the way they flirt? Jealous? Discuss your experiences here.
The guy is trying for an easy hook up. You are putting too much credit into his words. People who go after their life long friends SO do not think in the future, they think in the present. He is looking for action. You need to learn that men who listen while you are down really want to hook up with you. If your bf is that bad and you guys are always breaking up you should end it for good but not for the friend. Get rid of both of them. Lastly tell your BF about his "friend".
Start clean and work on yourself before you put yourself in a horrible mess
We know that we shouldnt be seeing each other because him and my "bf" have been friends since middle school. I really dont know what to do and he doesnt either.I really need outside advice from ppl besides my friends so if everyone can give me some feedback I would really appreciate it
Thanks...
If you continue with this and see his friend, then be prepared to make this "break" between you and your so-called bf permanent.
Seems pretty simple to me the "best friend" is a weasel with no loyalty. You are a girl who has no problems cheating on her boyfriend with his best friend. You two are perfect for each other!
Don't do it. It makes you look like a whore and he will lose a good friend. It happened to me. Additionally, your BF may just kick the crap out of his friend and then you are left with a guy who is hurt and you still look like a whore. Be the bigger person and just go away. If you don't want your BF get out of his life completely and don't cause any further damage. You can survive in your own life and you ddon't need his friends to comfort you. Please, it isn't the right thing to do, for any of you.
Regardless of where you and this new man go I would still leave your boyfriend in the past. This is the fourth time you guys are seperated, it will probably continue in that pattern I would find something more sustainable.
I just can't help but laugh whenever I see a person posting that they love their bf/gf, and then going on to tell us how they cheated on them. So sadly, I'm usually laughing a LOT when reading threads on this forum, cuz people can never seem to shut up about how much they love the person they just betrayed in the worst possible way.
Break up with your bf, he deserves better than you. It's trashy enough to cheat, but to do it with your bf's best friend? Does anyone have any class anymore?
Harmful, If this guy is such a straight up sort, why hasn't he told his "friend", that he is interested in the "friends", GF.? BTW if you were such a good person, why haven't YOU told your BF, the truth?
Possibly, lkjh, possibly. I don't doubt now that he wanted something more. I guess he could have been after more, my point wasn't that, my point was that despite his attraction to me, (or wanting a lay) he didn't. It's entirely possible for a man to be a shoulder to cry on, and not do more. Turns out though, he had a preggers fiance back home, I found this out after he told me he loved me...jeez I pick em good.
Boldjack, I have told my bf the truth. If you think I was with my bf during the time with the other guy (I'm discussing on this thread) no I wasn't. I hadn't even met my bf then.
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between you and your so-called bf permanent.
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