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The head and the heart often conflict Tom. No one is asking you to stop thinking about her...maybe changing *how* you think about her will help.
Try not to think of this woman as your wife, but as a person. Just another person. Because love can often blind us to the reality of someone's actions, stepping back and looking at her more objectively can often help us deal.
I once told a good friend that I missed my ex. He asked 'If you didn't know her before, had just met and knew her past, would you want to date her?'
I shocked myself by answering no. I wouldn't. That's when I knew I 'crossed over' to the other side Tom. I'm not saying you'll feel that way, but...
Hang in there, feel better-
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