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Originally Posted by offset_man
You have not walked a mile in my shoes. How could you have? You are just extremely judgemental. I don't recall saying that I was better than the OW. I outlined my current scenario and received a lot of "tsk tsk tss...you're a very bad boy". And you know what? I was.
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I wasn't the only person you termed as "bitter". I didn't say(once again)that I had walked in your shoes. Sheesh. You came her stating
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yeah, I am not really sure I want to resume an affair with this woman, however I would like to make some peace with her. Based on what her friend told me I have lost some respect for her.
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However towards the end, I realized that she was not a good mate for me, and especially now, when I find out that loyalty is not her strong point (funny, I really thought she was quite loyal to me
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These are 2 of the statements you made. I read them as you implying as somehow she owed you more than her H or the OMM for that matter. You made it seem as if your respect was something to be thankful of earning. As I have said before the qualities you accused her of "NOT" exhibiting, were qualities you....did exhibit either. So why would you expect them from someone else's wife?
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