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On a side note it does pose the question of how to know *upon first Impressions* when someone is being shy verses someone who is truly aloof and standoffish. I must say I have often mistaken one for the other.
In working in the business world, I do find the posture (stance) of a shy person does vary from someone who is snobbish and aloof. Two co workers come to mind at my workplace, one who is definitely a snob and will only associate with a person based on their attire and income . Another co worker is just so soft spoken that when she talks she makes no eye contact (looks to the ground) and stands twiddling her feet as if she is being yelled at. Neither is a joy to converse with , yet one of them is at least approachable ...and it isn't the one with the tailored suit.
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