[tami-chan]

Originally Posted by taboo

This is a story of two people both married for years and love they're spouses. However, they are in love with each other and have been intimate and continue to communicate as they are geograpically 800 miles apart. They talk to each other everyday and have never experienced this level of splendor they share with each other with anyone even spouses
at anytime in either of their lives.

They are not all evil people both have raised families and children all grown
and moved out and families of their own. One of these individuals is being
torn up by guilt for being in love with her new found love after the last encounter which was heavenly for both. The female has had many opportunites and never did anything until she met him.

The male as well never did any cheating of anykind until he met her
The fact here is these two people are very deeply in love and though
they love their spouses they are not in love with them but they love
them and have not displaced any love from either.

Both the spouses of these two people have done their share of abuse mainly emotional and controlling fashion as well as being accusatory and
mindlessly suspicious and jealous taking for granted the other over the course of their marriages.

Please somebody some input but would be very welcome

Please help

Tell us what is a perfect world for you? keeping the marriage and having a BF on the side? your OM/MM leaving his marriage and you and he run off together and live happily ever after? Telling your spouses the truth and them tolerating your affair? what is it that you want? or....you are just not sure what you want and hope that talking about it here will somehow help you put things in perspective and hopefully, make a sound, honest decision?