[harmfulsweetz]

It actually sounds like you do like him. It's a new relationship, feel things out first. Maybe try taking it down a notch?

I'm gonna be honest here, you seem quite judgemental.
"1. I wish to be with someone my family would approve of.
2. though i know no one is perfect, i am more into the more serious guys.
3. i dont think we share the same believes, which for me is a huge deal. I think he just agrees because he likes me.
4. I wish he would take better care of himself.
5. i wish he would have a good education "

Your family isn't the one in a relationship with him, you are. If, for every person you like, your family don't, you dump them, well...see where I'm going? I would only pay attention to my families disapproval if it was founded in truth, i.e. he had a history of crime, drugs, beating women up, was cheating on me, etc. If it were simply, 'I don't like him'-well heck, you don't have to, because I do!

You actually sound like you are finding reasons to not like him, things which essentially, are superficial and potentially unfounded. One thing with men, they often agree just to keep us quiet. It's the easiest road to a nice easy life. Example, I say, I don't like strip clubs, he says neither do I, whilst looking at an ad for a strip club. Blatant lie, but it's easier to just agree. Saves on hassle. Maybe that was a tad extreme, ok, then I say I look thin in this (I look huge in it!) he says 'yeah real skinny.' It's a loose description of what I mean, all men do it.

You say you are attracted to him blah blah, so why not enjoy it? Maybe it won't lead down the aisle, but heck, many R's don't but they sure are fun. Think about what you really want, what YOU want, do it because you want to, not because you worry about what others think etc.