Cheating, Flirting, and JealousyBeing unfaithful to your significant other or suspect them of the same? Can't stand the way they flirt? Jealous? Discuss your experiences here.
Don't go to the lab if you don't want to. If he's interested in you, he'll approach and flirt, like he's been doing. If you like, be receptive to that and open to his approaches. Leave it at that. Enjoy the attentions of other young men as well.
Plus, I go to the lab on purpose, he has never went out of his way to see me. I go there because I like being in there for one, two, I like him...so he's a bonus. He has never replied to my emails on facebook, but whenever he sees me he stares, HARD, and says hi....or stares long enough until I say hi, lol
Indie, three words: "SUPPLY and DEMAND".... he is collecting "fans"...he is trying to feed his ego...you are helping him-nothing wrong with that for him. Wrong for you because you barely get anything from it. Stop sending him messages on FB or any where else that you like him....it is enough that he already knows. Disengage.... you are supplying him with too much "attention"-he has devalued you.
What he did running his fingers through your arm and hugging you tightly was too forward, if that was me-I would have slapped him...ok...maybe not, but he would've gotten some major staring down...He assumed that you will welcome him violating your personal space.
Indie, three words: "SUPPLY and DEMAND".... he is collecting "fans"...he is trying to feed his ego...you are helping him-nothing wrong with that for him. Wrong for you because you barely get anything from it. Stop sending him messages on FB or any where else that you like him....it is enough that he already knows. Disengage.... you are supplying him with too much "attention"-he has devalued you.
What he did running his fingers through your arm and hugging you tightly was too forward, if that was me-I would have slapped him...ok...maybe not, but he would've gotten some major staring down...He assumed that you will welcome him violating your personal space.
Good luck!
Thanks Tami,
*sigh* I guess Im just going to be a passed around groupie forever...when does it end?
I just want to be in love or in a good relationship with someone I really like. Most of the guys that show the most interest I do not like because they talk about themselves all the time. They are willing to spend money on me, take me out etc. but I dont want to be around them. I just want someone that I feel the some way with....I have no experience what so ever at 22 years old.
...2-year college guys are losers...Im leaving in the fall, I cant wait either!
Last edited by indie22; 8th November 2009 at 7:36 PM..
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