Hmm.. don't think you can make generalisations, it's not the same for everyone, my dumper isn't staying in contact so he can wean himself off me, he has made it clear he loves (as friends) and cares about me and wants us to remain close friends, he's not a bull******.
Yes I think probably in a lot of cases contact is easier for the dumper if they are sure they are no longer in love with their ex and sure they have done the right thing, contact is hard for the dumpee as they are likely to be in love still.
My advice wasn't meant to be a generalization. My reply was given based on what I read from the poster.
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