[tokar]

OK I was dating someone that is married I know some people think it is wrong. She ended up back with her husband and she is working on things I lost my place and i moved in with her now that its over we are best friends but its really really really hard to move on cause we do still have feelings for each other and seeing her with her husband ****ing kills me and my jealousy is killing our friendship don't get me wrong if she wanted to do things It would be on like donkey kong but still It would be nice not to get jealous or at least control it better than i have been. Any advice

[EarthGirl]

it's over. deal with it. especially if you were more the one to move towards ending the relationship you have no right to be upset...well you can be upset if you can''t help it but you have no right to express it or complain.

[Space Ritual]

Exactly!

Problem is many married people do go back to their spouses after affairs, and sadly for you I am afraid that you will just have to deal with it. she had her fun with you.

Sorry but THEY ARE MARRIED! Thats what you get for messing with someone's marriage. Grow Up!

[carhill]

Another odd first-time post, oh well....

It would be nice not to get jealous or at least control it better than i have been. Any advice

Do you normally fall in love with unavailable women? If so, my advice would be to take a hard look at that perspective and perhaps get some help. Alternatively, if you don't wish to change, find a more available MW.

What exactly are your living arrangements now? I ask because you said you moved in with her.

[road]

This is why you do not date married or separated people.

You have reaped what you have sown. Enjoy the harvest.

Why are you surprised by what happened?