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Araic... I'm 20 and I am waiting myself for potential suitors. I get chatted up at the bar/parties but that doesn't mean I want to get to know them!
I sincerely hope the people who say "have patience" know what they're talking about- hehe. You know how somethings are "in theory" only.
One question I always ask myself though is "Am I truly ready to have a boyfriend?" I've been flipflopping around on that question. What I've seen from my peers are that relationships are drama, drama, drama and take out a lot of time- Lol- also, note that you can't be running all around the world if you want to have a relationship with somebody. You can't drop everything and decide you want to go to Las Vegas and get surgery to become a man- Lol. Just telling you the cons.
If you meet someone wonderful while waiting, please tell us- my friends and I need some hope.
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Btw Shygirl, i LOVE that I'm both really odd looking, and boring & common looking.... and I was thinking I wasn't a great multi-tasker!!!
I believe you secretly already knew that though? Anyways, usually when someone question their own looks in public it's often because they secretly already know they are not all that good looking for example if guys rejected or pay no attention to me, my looks will be the last thing I could think of. I will think that it's because of having a child etc because that's what I secretly think could sometimes turn a guy away from me.
I believe you secretly already knew that though? Anyways, usually when someone question their own looks in public it's often because they secretly already know they are not all that good looking for example if guys rejected or pay no attention to me, my looks will be the last thing I could think of. I will think that it's because of having a child etc because that's what I secretly think could sometimes turn a guy away from me.
What are you contributing to the OP, Shygirl? It's true she wanted honest impressions, but you're being a bit harsh.
I can't believe I started this is June & am still waiting for surgeons&consultants to give me their opinions & the possibilities despite many visits & reminding phonecalls ugh!
I'm sorry to hear that. Did you rule the option of coming to the US for the surgery? I can't recall. Given the nature of the procedure and your current health, I would expect some delays in a national health care type system, given the priorities.
Thanks carhill, bizarrely the biggest delay has been between my consultant & the hospital he sent me to (where he works most days!) for a CT scan. They keep misunderstanding eachother regarding some format or other. ugh! I know it's hardly urgent but sheesh! And the consultant is very much not public (i.e. he's fairly darn expensive!) but one day I burst into tears & he hasn't charged me a cent since
Anywho when I finally get the right scans into my paws I'll send them to a recommended specialist in England and also to the one in Boston shadowplay gave me the heads up for
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And the consultant is very much not public (i.e. he's fairly darn expensive!) but one day I burst into tears & he hasn't charged me a cent since 
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