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Old 7th November 2009, 2:35 PM   #1
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Just like Sunny said stop trying to figure it out. Does it really matter why? Is he treating you like you deserve and want to be treated? It doesn't sound like it.
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Old 8th November 2009, 6:31 PM   #2
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I dont think me and my ex will be friends. I cant do that...i have done with other ex's i have one of them is even one of my closests mates but this one is different. The only way i can get past and over him is to not speak, look and hear from him. As long as there nothing around me of his and i dont hear from him i can do ok. Friends though would just be too hard!!
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Old 10th November 2009, 1:18 PM   #3
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I really miss him today and I have no idea...it's been 5 weeks tomorrow since we broke and coming up to three weeks no contact! Confused have you heard anymore from him?
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Old 10th November 2009, 8:26 PM   #4
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its been five weeks of nc for me also, hes prob to busy away with those guys now than to bother contacting me, he prob out having sex and doing drugs with some one else
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Old 11th November 2009, 4:40 AM   #5
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See I miss him but for making me feel like this I would never take him back...he makes me angry what I'm think I'm going through because he's so selfish. Is your ex still away?
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Old 11th November 2009, 12:17 PM   #6
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not sure i havent talked to him lol so i dont know where or what and i like it like that! im really starting to get over him, im not going to be his codependent... read this adivce i got, i wrote this woman an email and she answered it... its same story i posted here

http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress...ict/#more-4624
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Old 11th November 2009, 9:46 PM   #7
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well i found out the jerk still went away, and he had the F-ing nerve to text me last week before he did... what a jerk
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Old 13th November 2009, 4:35 PM   #8
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so why do you think he text me before he went away? i dont think he thought i would really go threw with not speaking to him, he prob thought i was bluffing..u think he will try again?
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Old 14th November 2009, 7:35 PM   #9
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i hope i get a call somday with him wanting to get back with me so i can get the joy of rejecting him
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Old 14th November 2009, 10:46 PM   #10
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i had a dream again about him last night.. im just still so confused and in a bad mood today. i still wonder if it was because of the drugs or because he just lost his feeligns for me..he never appeared high when with me but i mostly only seen him on weekends... would he in his sober mind push me away with the knowledge that he wanted to use drugs? or because i was challanging him and it was a threat to him and he dindt like hearing the truth...i dont know what the hell is going on.. i was doing good but today i feel lousy.
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