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Originally Posted by JoJola
Oh God, I am so f"n confused at this point i am ready to flee, but I have that problem....running away I mean...its my saftey response I think. I jst dont understand, at this point are we a couple or are we not?
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Seems like it is a watershed time. You had the death in your family and for whatever reason he didn't attend. He instead spent time with someone else, and didn't tell you about it.
I would ask him if you are a couple. Unless you want a "flexible" arrangement. After 5 months, or however long, I think it is time for him to "declare himself" or take a hike.