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Old 7th November 2009, 2:27 PM   #9
Boundary Problem
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Oh God, I am so f"n confused at this point i am ready to flee, but I have that problem....running away I mean...its my saftey response I think. I jst dont understand, at this point are we a couple or are we not?

Seems like it is a watershed time. You had the death in your family and for whatever reason he didn't attend. He instead spent time with someone else, and didn't tell you about it.

I would ask him if you are a couple. Unless you want a "flexible" arrangement. After 5 months, or however long, I think it is time for him to "declare himself" or take a hike.
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