Well she came back. It took some time for us to re-calibrate again to each other. About a day or two. I saw her at home and she was on the phone with work...and this lasted another 30mins. Suffice to say i said something about it
The said co-worker is on another trip with another female colleague and she told me he is engaged but in a complicated relationship. When my wife goes on trips I "throw" into her bag a teddy bear i had won at a fare with my cologne. The male colleague had seen it when he came to my wife's hotel room to discuss some news about their boss and my wife told him about it and he told her how a 30yr old woman shouldnt have teddy bears. My wife showed me the pictures she took with her phone (not the ones on facebook..no mention). She kept on...almost reminding me...that most days they would eat after work and then go to their rooms and play the game. Since the male colleague doesnt have internet access from home their communications will be limited. They got approached while overseas to maybe start a franchise with similar services in our country, but I dont think that will go anywhere due to its newness and riskiness.
I am possibly having to go overseas for a week of study sometime next year and i found it quiet cute that my wife asked me if she could come along. I would have taken her with anyway
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She is due on going on another trip sometime before the end of this year. So its like we dont settle into a routine.
She tells me she needs me and feels good when she is around me. She cant answer me the "why". Though it did bug me that when we chatted over this weekend and if there was a link she would mention the colleage. E.g. Internet Access, Boss-Teddy Bear etc.
When we chatted about the matter, as knitwit prescribed, (and i only read now), I did make sure to use "I" dont feel good about this and its not you.
I think i have seen that marriage has to do with [aying attention to other person.
I'll keep the thread open whenever i see there is some news to share
thanks
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