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Old 1st November 2009, 8:41 AM   #46
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Franklin,
Why worry about it??? When I got tired of all the rejection, I bought my Realdoll. It was a decision I never regretted.

Now when some woman starts asking me why I never got married, never fathered a couple of retards, etc etc, I just start telling her about my Realdoll. It's pretty damn funny to watch these women get all flustered and defensive... but hey, they did it to themselves by withholding love and I don't feel sorry for them.
I am not buying a toy deal to replace women. I rather continue to be lonely than buy a doll.
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Old 3rd November 2009, 10:34 PM   #47
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My advice? never give up man...keep trying. It's your life, you're still young. Attitude.
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Old 4th November 2009, 10:17 AM   #48
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You come off as being very arrogant Franklin. Reading your thread I find you to be an unattractive personality. Which for a man is the most important thing if you want to get a woman. You always get no for an answer because there is something wrong with you. The way you go on and on its as if your seeking validation that you are right and never wrong. Seriously stop trying to hard, take a step back and develop your character first.

PS: You best not be trollin' bro. This is my first post here.
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Old 5th November 2009, 7:42 PM   #49
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You come off as being very arrogant Franklin. Reading your thread I find you to be an unattractive personality. Which for a man is the most important thing if you want to get a woman. You always get no for an answer because there is something wrong with you. The way you go on and on its as if your seeking validation that you are right and never wrong. Seriously stop trying to hard, take a step back and develop your character first.

PS: You best not be trollin' bro. This is my first post here.
Please tell me what is very arrogant about my first post.
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Old 6th November 2009, 5:42 PM   #50
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From reading the post and responses, i didn't get the impression that you're an arrogant dude, but maybe a bit abrupt in address, which can come across as insensitive/too direct. Like i said before, 'Attitude'. Sometime it's not what you say, but how you say it. You'll be fine man...good luck.
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Old 6th November 2009, 8:56 PM   #51
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A man who is not arrogant will never be his own boss.
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Old 7th November 2009, 7:07 AM   #52
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[off-topic] Disillusioned, "hubris". There are two sides to arrogance, one related to self-esteem and on the other end of the spectrum, is higher status (e.g. believing you're above everyone else).

Back on topic... did you sense Rated-RKOFranklin was arrogant from his posts?
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Old 7th November 2009, 12:41 PM   #53
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No. OTOH he seems to have gotten the gist of the game fairly quickly.
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Old 12th November 2009, 10:47 AM   #54
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Dude, after reading all these posts, let me ask you: what do you want people to tell you? You certainly are entitled to your own opinions, yet you get very defensive when people offer theirs. What is it that you want out of this post? Truth be told, the way you write, you DO come across as arrogant. I don't know you personally, as you may not be in real life, but just an observation. Also, are you sure you don't have self esteem issues as you are trying REALLY hard to portray yourself as this great guy. Most truly inner confident guys don't try so hard to exude confidence. (Correct if I'm wrong ladies, but a truly confident guy is a turn-on, am I wrong?)...

About your standards. I applaud them, as at least you have some. Most young people are still confused. However, most of them if not all are superficial qualities. I am like you friend, I love the well kept, beautiful women, and over the years I've had my share; I LOVE attractive women. Before this year, I've never dated anyone less than an "8" (in my eyes), and I'm not saying this to boast. It's just a numbers game. I've asked 100s of girls out, so if you actually looked at my percentage, its absolutely horrendous. However, none of that matters if they cheat on you, or won't take care of you when you need their help, or if as a person, they are just bad (and I've learned there ARE bad people in the world).

So what's my point. You have to open up your mind and expand your horizons, not only with the ladies, but more importantly also with yourself. Yeah!?! Surgery on you ears, probably not, but don't discount it entirely. And remember, you can't keep on adding "1 + 1", and not expect it to result in anything but 2.
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Old 12th November 2009, 7:34 PM   #55
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Dude, after reading all these posts, let me ask you: what do you want people to tell you? You certainly are entitled to your own opinions, yet you get very defensive when people offer theirs. What is it that you want out of this post? Truth be told, the way you write, you DO come across as arrogant. I don't know you personally, as you may not be in real life, but just an observation. Also, are you sure you don't have self esteem issues as you are trying REALLY hard to portray yourself as this great guy. Most truly inner confident guys don't try so hard to exude confidence. (Correct if I'm wrong ladies, but a truly confident guy is a turn-on, am I wrong?)...

About your standards. I applaud them, as at least you have some. Most young people are still confused. However, most of them if not all are superficial qualities. I am like you friend, I love the well kept, beautiful women, and over the years I've had my share; I LOVE attractive women. Before this year, I've never dated anyone less than an "8" (in my eyes), and I'm not saying this to boast. It's just a numbers game. I've asked 100s of girls out, so if you actually looked at my percentage, its absolutely horrendous. However, none of that matters if they cheat on you, or won't take care of you when you need their help, or if as a person, they are just bad (and I've learned there ARE bad people in the world).

So what's my point. You have to open up your mind and expand your horizons, not only with the ladies, but more importantly also with yourself. Yeah!?! Surgery on you ears, probably not, but don't discount it entirely. And remember, you can't keep on adding "1 + 1", and not expect it to result in anything but 2.
How am I trying hard to be portray as a nice guy? Please tell me.
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Old 13th November 2009, 10:18 AM   #56
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How am I trying hard to be portray as a nice guy? Please tell me.
I said GREAT guy. And what's the point of this reply?
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Old 13th November 2009, 6:33 PM   #57
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I said GREAT guy. And what's the point of this reply?
I don't know why you are getting an attitude with me. You clearly said that I come across as an arrogant guy who is trying to hard to be viewed as a great guy. All I just did was ask you why do you think that.
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