Location: My own head but trying to find a new place to dwell
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Originally Posted by hpnutter
I just need to ask this question tho I've got another thread going.
My boyfriend of 4 years (LDR for 2) says the spark has gone and he loves me but isn't sure if it isn't in a different way, more like friends than lovers.
Is there any way we can change this? I've made lots of suggestions but he's thinking about things because he says he's confused and upset too and wants to figure things out and make the right decision.
Is this a lost cause now? Can people get the spark back? Can you get back to feeling like lovers once you've started drifting towards friends?
I feel so upset, I don't want to break up. I felt we were drifting (which is why I brought it up and now I've caused everything to crash down around me), but I still want him for my boyfriend! :-( Please help!
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