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Old 7th November 2009, 3:32 AM   #2
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Some women are attracted to "bad boys" and all the drama that ensues with it. Sadly nice, stable guys are just that....NICE GUYS. And as much as we'd like to believe that the Nice guys finish last addage is an old wives tale, many times it isnt.

She was married twice and they both lasted in total less than 2 years? Wow thats a pretty good indicator that this woman is a "fly by nighter". So sorry that you gave your love and affection to her.

This woman obviously likes drama and stability is a foreign concept to her. I sure hope you impose NC and don't even worry about how she is. I know you loved her, but her past(you were friends with her for all those years?) should have told you this is somebody that was not worth your time.

Maybe you thought you could fix her or just show her what a loving relationship is like. Sadly it wasn't the case. She will have to learn these lessons on her own.At any rate...DO NOT TAKE HER BACK!
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