[HeavenOrHell]

Many thanks for your reply, much appreciated

Originally Posted by Crusoe

Hi Heaven. I hope you dont mind me saying that you seem to be a truly wonderful person, and that is something your man is not going to forget easily.
You know, a person can only neglect something that is incapable of fending for itself, therefore I cannot believe that you, of all people, are capable of neglecting any living thing. By moving out, your man has proven he can fend for himself, therefore you did not neglect him, he just feels like you did, there is a difference.
Also your man seems to be a very decent fella, yet he is at that second age where many men pause and reflect on their lives, many get confused and are unsure of what they want from life. He left you at the age of 30 and is doing so again as he nears 40. I wish to give you no false hope, but I would just hang on in there as best you can, make no rash decisions, do whatever you have to do to keep yourself going, be patient and see what occurs. No self blame, no self doubt.