OP didn't say she was being asked to choose, she just asked who was more important, the BF or BFF.
I'm suggesting that the girlfriend will more than likely outlast the boyfriend, and when that happens, she will probably need the girlfriend to help her cope with the breakup. Not suggesting anyone should ever have to choose, I just hate to see it when women blow off their girlfriends for a guy, and then expect the best friend to be around at the end to pick up the pieces.
I dunno. I've done that for my friends and they've done that for me.
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