[EricaH329]

Originally Posted by rp123

I'm hanging in there. I'm always just hanging in there......

Today felt different though, and maybe I'm moving into a different phase. .. Either way, Erica, you know what its like: Good days, bad days, good days, bad days..........

Can't wait to report back after 10 days that I'm still NC!!

I do know how it is. As weird as it sounds, every time I think about him... and I mean seriously think about him, he contacts me. My mom seems to think that we are still connected in some way, and he can somehow 'feel' when i'm longing for him.

It sounds crazy, but it's the only explanation.

Anyway, i'm proud of you for sticking it out!!! Looking forward to hearing that you are still holding strong on the 10th day! I know you can do it! You're doing fantastic so far!!

Originally Posted by sean1970

I have 24 days today... She text a week later (lame, hurtful, selfish).

July break up, multiple NC fails (breadcrumbs thrown / meeting requests by the ex).

My Birthday is Dec 30th... Even though its a ways away, still wondering what to do when she texts (99.987533% sure she will).

Still sucks...

Do what the rest of us are doing. Nothing. Don't respond. It feels weird to have someone wish you a happy birthday, or wishing you a good weekend, and not responding. I feel very rude when ignoring someone like that. But... it must be done.

It feels very empowering BTW. Knowing that they aren't getting what they want. Even though it kills us to do that, they don't know that. And they don't have to.