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When I met my recent x-MM, I knew he was married. He told me how unhappy he was in the M, how loveless and sexless it was. I didnt find him interesting or intelligent, so even though I did not want to be an OW, we started having sex. Because I wasnt into his personality at first, it was easy to stay detached.
After a few months, I realized I did have feelings for him, and I broke it off. He was devastated and a wreck. We stayed in total NC until I had a personal trauma, and in my vulnerability, I reached out to him. And we started up again. Though this time with a new intensity. He was now talking about building a life with me and leaving his W, and moving in with me. We began working on business for him, and spending more time together planning a life. He was working for my parents as well, so they were aware of him and our relationship (though never knew he was married, of course!).
I guess I was the OW who went into it never expecting to fall, and then did fall.
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