People lying about looks

TwilightSky · 5th November 2009, 4:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Barby

I just saw your pic...you're a very handsome guy.

If people are insulting your looks maybe you should just stop hanging around jerks!

All lies! lol! Thanks, I'm not sure what to think now.

TwilightSky · 7th November 2009, 3:23 AM

Actually, I realized that isn't true at all. At work, some guy asked a girl if I looked like the new Spoc or the old one, at first she said I didn't look like either. Then, he pressed her saying "if you had to choose one" then she said the old one. Thing is I KNOW (for a fact) that I am ugly. Really wish ppl would stop being cowards and just say what I need to change physically.

Malenfant · 7th November 2009, 6:01 AM

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Originally Posted by TaleSpin

I went and found your picture in a previous post.

There's nothing wrong with you, except maybe Body Dysmorphic Disorder.

You're attractive. I would give you a 7.5 on a 1 to 10 scale.

which post? I cant comment if i havent seen the pic!

carhill · 7th November 2009, 7:18 AM

Here's a similar thread by the OP:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/show....php?p=2449887

He changed the album URL to kill the link, which is exactly what I was going to suggest

His real issue, as mine was at his age, is fear of rejection. He himself stated this as one of the reasons he's never asked out a young lady, IIRC.

ann09 · 7th November 2009, 11:03 AM

Confidence is sexy. Lack of self esteem isn't.

I've never been attracted to the typical good looking man. Flaws are oddly attractive to me.

Stop obsessing over your looks and start liking yourself more. Women will pick up on this and be more intrigued by you.

I still believe, you can't fully love another until you love yourself.

TwilightSky · 7th November 2009, 4:45 PM

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Originally Posted by ann09

Confidence is sexy. Lack of self esteem isn't.

I've never been attracted to the typical good looking man. Flaws are oddly attractive to me.

Stop obsessing over your looks and start liking yourself more. Women will pick up on this and be more intrigued by you.

I still believe, you can't fully love another until you love yourself.

Like I said before, confidence with lack of other useful qualities doesn't mean anything.

MrFun · 8th November 2009, 4:12 PM

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Originally Posted by TwilightSky

I KNOW I am hideous and ugly

You're right. You are ugly and hideous. Just it's not your looks, it's your attitude toward yourself.

Lose that and you'll gain a hell of a lot more than you think.

TwilightSky · 10th November 2009, 11:00 PM

Yes, I am probably hideous on the inside as well. I'm getting to the point of not caring.